Pleasure and having fun are the term that very familiar in our life. Pleasure can be shopping, make a journey, hanging out, etc. Everyone likes to do that. It is becaused they got stress in their job or school. So, they need something that can make them relax and enjoy at the time. They will do the pleasure and having fun when they have free time or when get stress from daily activity or maybe when they get more money to do that. Even, more crazy there are people who like having fun in every time. Actually I am too, but in some reason I don’t really like waste my time for having fun.
For the first, I don’t like to waste my time by having fun because I don’t have more money for it. I know that not every pleasure need much money, but I keep not really like to have fun by waste my money. I prefer use my money to the other needs. I remember my parents very struggling to get money, and I waste the money for fun. I never think to do that.
The next one is I prefer waste my free time in my room than having fun. I like to do anything in my room such as watching television, online, reading novels, sleep, etc. I prefer stay in my room than go out. I can waste a full day in my room by doing activities above. Maybe it is the reason why I'm hard to get new friends. I used to be silent and seldom talk to the others.
The last, pleasure and having fun make me not discipline with my time. I don’t like to waste my time in vain. I believe discipline time can make us success in our life. So, I have to manage my time carefully. I don’t want if someday I get regret in the future because of I am not discipline in my time caused by my desire that want to pleasure and having fun.
Because of the reasons above I seldom have fun and enjoy pleasure in my time. I just do it if I get stress in my activity. It can be once a week, even one a month. Many serious things that we can do in early age for our future.
*don’t waste your time just for fun …
Selasa, 26 Juli 2011
Why do you have to be selfish?
Do you ever think that you have to be an egoist person? If you never think that, you can think this start from now. Because everyone absolutely have been thinking selfishly. They like to advance their prominence than the others. They will help the others if they have finished their concern or even they will not help anything. You can think selfish if you have ever experienced this following condition.
First, if your friends just need you when they need your help. For instance, your friends and you have same homework, they ask you to help them doing the homework or even ask you to do that homework. Whereas they know you don’t do that homework yet. If there is not homework they will not remember you. Or even when they are happy they forget to you. You have to say “no” when they ask like that. You have to think yourself. If you are a good friend, you will help them after you finished that homework. You have to think yourself before think about them.
Next, You have to think egoistic when you dependent on the others. I mean that, when you dependent to the others and then they make you disappointed. You can be selfish. For example, you always need someone’s help to do anything, but someday he can’t help you. You have to think selfish, you can do it. You don’t need his help anymore. It can motivated you to do by yourself.
The last, you can think selfish when your parents impose their wish to you. We often see parents impose their wish to children like impose their children to be someone who they want. Whereas the child was more interested in other one. I know that every parent want the best for their children and they know what the best for them. But I mean who are live in our future? Of course, we are, aren’t we? So, we have to be an egoist person. We will live in future, so we know what we want to be. We know it will be disobeying parents and they will be angry to us. But if you give understanding slowly, I believe they will give you trust.
To summary, these conditions above will increase your selfish. We know that selfish has connotative meaning, but if we think in positively, selfish can motivated us to be independent and more confident.
*you can try this at home … :D
First, if your friends just need you when they need your help. For instance, your friends and you have same homework, they ask you to help them doing the homework or even ask you to do that homework. Whereas they know you don’t do that homework yet. If there is not homework they will not remember you. Or even when they are happy they forget to you. You have to say “no” when they ask like that. You have to think yourself. If you are a good friend, you will help them after you finished that homework. You have to think yourself before think about them.
Next, You have to think egoistic when you dependent on the others. I mean that, when you dependent to the others and then they make you disappointed. You can be selfish. For example, you always need someone’s help to do anything, but someday he can’t help you. You have to think selfish, you can do it. You don’t need his help anymore. It can motivated you to do by yourself.
The last, you can think selfish when your parents impose their wish to you. We often see parents impose their wish to children like impose their children to be someone who they want. Whereas the child was more interested in other one. I know that every parent want the best for their children and they know what the best for them. But I mean who are live in our future? Of course, we are, aren’t we? So, we have to be an egoist person. We will live in future, so we know what we want to be. We know it will be disobeying parents and they will be angry to us. But if you give understanding slowly, I believe they will give you trust.
To summary, these conditions above will increase your selfish. We know that selfish has connotative meaning, but if we think in positively, selfish can motivated us to be independent and more confident.
*you can try this at home … :D
My Best Friend
Friend is someone who known us, while best friend is someone who very known anything about us. Best friend know about our family, our environment, and our other friends. She know our destitute and kindness. She always understand us when we are happy or sad. She always come when we need her help or on the contrary.
In this world, everyone absolutely has the other one to be her best friend. I am too. In my life I have many best friends such as in my environment and college. But in here, I just introduce three of my best friends. The first, her name is Sunnella Noor. Usually I call her nella. She is 19 years old. She comes from West Sumatra. I knew her in my senior high school, that is SMAN 6 Jambi. She is cute and beautiful girl. She is the most patient than my all best friends. Maybe it is becaused she is the oldest child in her family. She is also a kind girl. She always help me and give me support when I got down.
The second is Devita Sari. I call her Devi. She also my friend in senior high school. She is 20 years old. She comes from south Kalimantan. At the first I close he because we are the same tribe, Banjarnese. So, I close to her family, even they consider me as a family. Devi is a beautiful girl. She always help me to, especially if I have problem in my writing and papers. Now she studies in IAIN STS Jambi, in English Department. She also in four semesters, same with me. So, if I have problem in writing papers I can ask her to help me.
The last is Nurhidayati. In her daily, she is called Nunung. She is 19 years old. She was my friend in primary school and junior high school. She is a cute girl. We often do crazy things if we’re together. She often invites me to go to everywhere and meet me to her new friends. Now she studies in the same college with Devi, but in different class.
All in all, best friends are people who close to us, know about us and understand how we are. We need best friend not only in pleasure, but also in sharing to each other.
*thank you very much for all my best friends who I mentioned above or not .. I love you all
In this world, everyone absolutely has the other one to be her best friend. I am too. In my life I have many best friends such as in my environment and college. But in here, I just introduce three of my best friends. The first, her name is Sunnella Noor. Usually I call her nella. She is 19 years old. She comes from West Sumatra. I knew her in my senior high school, that is SMAN 6 Jambi. She is cute and beautiful girl. She is the most patient than my all best friends. Maybe it is becaused she is the oldest child in her family. She is also a kind girl. She always help me and give me support when I got down.
The second is Devita Sari. I call her Devi. She also my friend in senior high school. She is 20 years old. She comes from south Kalimantan. At the first I close he because we are the same tribe, Banjarnese. So, I close to her family, even they consider me as a family. Devi is a beautiful girl. She always help me to, especially if I have problem in my writing and papers. Now she studies in IAIN STS Jambi, in English Department. She also in four semesters, same with me. So, if I have problem in writing papers I can ask her to help me.
The last is Nurhidayati. In her daily, she is called Nunung. She is 19 years old. She was my friend in primary school and junior high school. She is a cute girl. We often do crazy things if we’re together. She often invites me to go to everywhere and meet me to her new friends. Now she studies in the same college with Devi, but in different class.
All in all, best friends are people who close to us, know about us and understand how we are. We need best friend not only in pleasure, but also in sharing to each other.
*thank you very much for all my best friends who I mentioned above or not .. I love you all
ME AND THE FROG
Sunday, 24 July 2011 I was in my village. My village is 100 kilometers from Jambi. it needs 2 hours from my village to Jambi. At the day I want to come back to Jambi. Necessarily, I went in the morning but I was rather ill, so I pending my journey until the day. At the 01:00 pm I was still not fine. My parents didn’t allow to me doing the journey. They gave suggestion about Monday I back to Jambi. In the first I refused the suggestion because I had many homework and I should be in the class writing on Monday at 08:00 am. So, what time I can go and be in the class. But then I thought I can go at least at 06:00 am tomorrow.
Next day, my mother called me at 04:45 am. I was so lazy to wake up but then I woke up and prepared to back to Jambi. At 05:15 I began to go my journey. Twenty minutes on the way, the rain fell very heavy. I stopped my journey and stayed in front of a small house. I waited the rain stop. My mind always thinks how I can be in the class writing today if the rain doesn’t stop. I was chagrined didn’t come back yesterday. As long as nearly an hour I was there, the rain doesn’t stop. I think I will be late or I will not come to the class writing today. Suddenly, there was a frog closer to me. I looked at it. It paused looking at the rain that fallen. I kept looking at it. Then I talked to the frog, “frog please says to God to stop this rain. I have to go to Jambi now, I have to be in the class writing this morning, I have so many homework and I don’t do it yet. Please frog says to anyone or anything. Please … !!”. amazing !!! the frog looked at me, it seemed understand what I say to it. I repeated my expression again. And promised to the frog if the rain stopped I will make my journal writing about the frog. It kept looked at me. But then the frog went to beside of the house. After the frog went, the rain was more subside. I saw the frog again and said thanks to it. I continued my journey. On the way I always think how to put “ the frog” in my writing.
I arrived in Jambi and I can be in class writing at the day (although come late) thanks to the frog. So, now I want to keep my promise to the frog. I almost done write my writing about it.
*thank you very much frog …
Next day, my mother called me at 04:45 am. I was so lazy to wake up but then I woke up and prepared to back to Jambi. At 05:15 I began to go my journey. Twenty minutes on the way, the rain fell very heavy. I stopped my journey and stayed in front of a small house. I waited the rain stop. My mind always thinks how I can be in the class writing today if the rain doesn’t stop. I was chagrined didn’t come back yesterday. As long as nearly an hour I was there, the rain doesn’t stop. I think I will be late or I will not come to the class writing today. Suddenly, there was a frog closer to me. I looked at it. It paused looking at the rain that fallen. I kept looking at it. Then I talked to the frog, “frog please says to God to stop this rain. I have to go to Jambi now, I have to be in the class writing this morning, I have so many homework and I don’t do it yet. Please frog says to anyone or anything. Please … !!”. amazing !!! the frog looked at me, it seemed understand what I say to it. I repeated my expression again. And promised to the frog if the rain stopped I will make my journal writing about the frog. It kept looked at me. But then the frog went to beside of the house. After the frog went, the rain was more subside. I saw the frog again and said thanks to it. I continued my journey. On the way I always think how to put “ the frog” in my writing.
I arrived in Jambi and I can be in class writing at the day (although come late) thanks to the frog. So, now I want to keep my promise to the frog. I almost done write my writing about it.
*thank you very much frog …
MY HOBBIES
Many things that
I like to do. So I think these are my hobby. The first one is watching
television. I like watching television. If I have free time I always watch
television. The program that I like to watch is comedy program. Comedy program
can refresh our mind by laugh in watching the comedy. I can forget to do my other
activity if I am watching the comedy I can spend a full day in my room by
watching television.
The second hobby
is reading a book. Especially reading a novel. I have some collection of
novels. At least I read a novel in a week. I like to imagine the plot of the
story in the novel. I also like to understand the character in it. Some time
the story in the novel can be same with our life. It can lesson for us in the
future life. Usually, I often exchange my novels to my friend’s novel in order
to I can read many novels.
The last hobby
is fishing. I like fishing, but I seldom do that. Because no one who want to
accompany me and invite me to do this activity. I like fishing because it can
make me refresh my mind. If holiday I always ask my father and brother to go
fishing. But, they do not want to do that. They say that prefer to sleep or
watching television than fishing. They think fishing is very bored but I think
fishing is a good thing to do. It can practice our patient. When we wait the
fish eat the fish bait, it need more patient.
These hobby
above are things that I very like to do. Because its can refresh my mind when I
get stressed in m y activity.
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